13 dec.

Jab ap likhtay hain to kahin dost apk khelaf hujaitay hain. Kahin apki raai sy iqtifaaq krny lag jatay hain kahin ko apk alfaz pasand nhe atay. Kahin apko apl lafzon sy apki shahkhisyat ko tatola shuru hujatay hain. Yah janay baghair k ap jo likh rahay hain woh apka qalam to likh raha hai. Ap apni souch ka izhar to karrhy hain. Lakin halat aur mahool k mutabiq likh rhy hain. Haqiqat par likh rahay hain. Par kahin loug apki raai sy itifaaq nhe kartay aur apk khelaf ho kr ap k lie dil main nafrat paida kr laytay hain..Yah janay bina k "ek likhari ka kaam likhna hai..agr wo khamosh hujai aur apk nazariye ko sahe smjhtay hui haqiqat sy mau chura kr likhna shuru kardain toh apny Qalam k sth sth apny Mashray k logo k sth nainsafi karega.! Humain sbk nazariye ka ahtarm kartay huway apna nazariya batana chaye. Badtamizi aur jazbat , gussay . ko ek taraf rakh k baat karna chaye. Apny mazhab firqay maslaak ko dekh kr dusro k baray main galat/bura souchay baghair apna nazariye pesh karna chaye. Ek likhari pr bht pressure hota hai logo ki raayi ka. Rishto ka. Wo agr sach likhay yah wo baat likhay jo usk apno ko bura lagay to wo kahin rishtay khoo dayta hai. Shayad is liye aksar likhari apni zaat main tanha hotay hain. !  Woh kisi ko bura lagay baghair haqiqat sachai sy likhnay ka paband hota hai. Jab loug usy nhe manay to usk kirdaar pr to kabhi usk aqeeday pr to kabi usk khaandaan pr to kabhi uski zaat pr ugli uthany lagtay hain. Is liye likhnay ka kaam aisa hai k ap kahin dushman hotay hain to kahin dost. ! Par uska rishta agr kisi k sth gehra aur sacha hota hai to wo usk alfaz hotay hain.😊